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The Narcissists Weapons – #1 Love Bombing

Let’s start with a definition from Psychology Today, Love Bombing: A Narcissist's Secret Weapon. “Love bombing is the practice of overwhelming someone with signs of adoration and attraction — think flattering comments, tokens of affection, or love notes on the mirror, kitchen table, or windshield, and you’re beginning to get the picture. Its flowers delivered at work with hearts dotting the i’s in your name. It’s texts that increase in frequency as they increase in romantic fervor. It’s surprise appearances designed to manipulate you into spending more time with the bomber — and, not coincidentally, less time with others, or on your own.” Let me talk plainly about the dangers of being the love ‘bombee’. So if you are seeking love from someone (anyone!) like i was, you will be easily taken in and enchanted by someone who comes into your life and gives you what you have been longing for since as long as you can remember – ‘love’. Trouble is this is not authentic love and you actually …

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